Ladies, which feeling is better?

i was first gonna answer by saying 'do you even need to ask? of course the second one' but then i thought how equally refreshing it is to be in a cheery, silly mood once in a while. its nice to be all intense and serious sometimes and to hear how special you are (which idiot is gonna say no to some spoiling? :p), but all the time? for me, that tends to kill the interest. so a bit of both for the balance :)