What should I do in this situation?

im not sure why ppl aske ? Like these you sahould just go with the flow. You already kinda have a list of things so just look at the situation and go with what feels right to you. If your really good friends with this girl than mayb you should just back off you said it yourself he may not be ready for a relationship. Or if you do really like him give it a shot! You never know till you fall head first into it :) hope this helps in some way